As a parent, I want to do everything I can to raise my children right. To give them the most out of their childhood, to point them in the right direction in life. I want them to love the Lord, and understand why. I want them to know that they are loved by my husband and I. Like almost every mom I’ve ever talked to on the subject, I sometimes I feel like I’m doing okay with that, other times not so much. I feel there’s always more I can learn about raising my children.
One book that I’ve recently read that I was able to draw from is The Blessing by John Trent and Gary Smalley. It’s an updated version of the same book written several years ago, but with fresh perspective for life today. The principals taught in the book are truly timeless. The Blessing is divided into four segments- Why the blessing is so important, understanding the blessing, when the blessing doesn’t happen and living the blessing challenge. It explains that a blessing is a gift of unconditional love and approval from one’s parents. The book teaches biblical truths to instill self-worth into others. As I read through, I wondered about those who never received that approval or blessing from their parents. I was pleased in the final chapters which include instructions and hope for those in that exact situation.
This book is a bit different than what I normally read, and it honestly took me a while to get through it. That’s not because it wasn’t a good book, but because there were parts that were so insightful, I felt I needed to process it before continuing on. If you are a parent or grandparent, I do recommend reading this book, and passing on this invaluable gift to your family.
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This is a book I could of used when raising my own children. I could use it now as a grandma! 🙂
You can bless your child by being supportive, even when they make mistakes.
You can bless your child by complimenting them on the inside and out!
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You can bless your child by loving your spouse!
You can bless your child by hugging them often, whether they've been angels or not!
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You can bless your child by making sure they know how much you love them
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I can bless my girls just by loving them for who they are. They don't have to be perfect for me to love them. I love them just as they are. thank you!
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You can bless a child by listening to them and understanding their feelings
I agree with you on how to read these kinds of books. I have read some books that take me forever, not because I didn't like it, just because I took my time processing all the info.
I think a huge blessing for our children is making sure they know that Mom and Dad love them unconditionally, just as God does.
And that Mom and Dad love each other. I think it is so important for kids to be secure in the fact that mom and dad are ok and the family unit is safe.
I can bless my child by giving her the tools necessary to grow into a woman of God. I also try to bless her by always being tuned in to her needs. (Sorry for deleting my last comment… I got so excited about the book that I totally forgot to answer your question!) 🙂
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I can bless my children by biting my tongue when I see them doing something that might not be wrong but is definitely not what I would do.
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You can bless a child by always being their most supportive and loudest 'cheerleader'.
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you can bless your child by being supportive and have them particpate in church activites
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I want to bless my children by letting them know that they are always loved no matter what they do!
I can bless my child by reminding her everyday that I love her and she will always be my "munchkin" 🙂
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You can bless someone important to you by loving them and letting them know they are loved.
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